
Yes, you read the title of my post right!
I went dumpster diving for my oldest daughter who humbled me and taught me a very valuable life lesson last night.
The item I went dumpster diving for is in this picture....
....the Hershey box....
this is how the story goes...
I was finishing my daughters desk. If you read my blog regularly, you already know that I transformed my childhood chair for her. And while I was at it I painted her desk.
The desk has it's own story I'll save for another post.
In my excitement of finishing the project before she arrived home from school I changed her "Hershey Box" that she uses as a pencil holder for a metal tin bucket, from the dollar section at Michael's, to match her new hardware.
She arrived home and up she ran to see her desk!
I was in the kitchen preparing dinner, excited to hear her reaction to the makeover....
Down she came, silent! the only thing she said was,
"What happened to my Hershey Box?"
Oh, I threw it out and replaced it with the tin.... and quickly added that it only cost me $1...
oh my gosh, I felt that I had to justify the change because it was only a dollar.
Everyone seemed to stop talking, all the crazy commotion stop and all eyes were on me!
I made a terrible mistake.
She proceeded to tell me that she loves that Hershey box because it came from her friend when they went to Hershey Park in Pennsylvania for her friends birthday.
I have to tell you my heart hurt.
I quickly apologized and told her that I didn't realize the sentimental value the box held for her.
She asked me if it was in the trash inside our home....
ummm no I took all the trash out to the trash can outside for trash service.
she walked away.... and I had her sisters and brother staring at me...
and i knew what they were thinking....
bad Mom! How are you going to make this better?
Out I went into the dark to search through the trash for the Hershey Box....
Oh my gosh, I said a prayer as I was walking.
I had no idea what bag it was in or what may have been tossed on top of it.
The first bag I open there it was!
The "Hershey Box" looking extra shiny with the beam of light shining on it from the flash light.
It was not crumbled or dirty.
You would have thought it was gently placed there waiting for me to find it!
I looked up to the sky and said, "Thank You God!"
I slowly walked into the house and up the stairs to her room. And showed her what I found.
I tried to make a joke and said, "I went dumpster diving for you!"
She smiled and said, "thank you and Mom it didn't matter that the bucket was a dollar my Hershey box worked just fine, it was from my friend and it was "free"!
Wow...
I learned a lesson... never ever throw out something without asking my children and I was humbled by my daughters fiscal responsibility at her age!

children, life and lessons...
I know I will make more mistakes parenting and I told the kids this at dinner...
but we will continue to learn from each other.
